BEING RED

BEING RED

When you are red, you are self-assertive, dominating, aggressive, intolerant, condescending, sarcastic, insulting, threatening, aggressive and not listening. You are closed too.

Verbal language

You use many judging words as: always, never, should, must do, just and easy. Up graders: Reinforcement of the words (also much used in the Para-language).

Para-language

Speaking loud and stressing the words; talking too much. Person is authoritative and snarling tone of voice.

Body language

You use a judging look, and your posture is perhaps over-straight and tense. You use your pen as a sword and use a lot of gesticulation; maybe you frown as well.

Methods

When you communicate red you cause difficulties and have negative attitude which is the result of the previously received impressions. You come with threats and “speak down” to other persons. You interrupt and ignore what other person says, and you “follow the person instead of the ball”.

Apart from being directly red, you can also be indirectly red.
When you are indirect you use sarcasm and you get rid of your indignation by talking “between the lines”. When a person is indirectly red you don’t know where he/she is. They practice the method: “Guess why I am surly”. You know that the person is offended, but you do not know why.