BEING GREEN
When you communicate green you give space to your interlocutor. You ask questions and you listen actively. You show your understanding, support, you cheer up and you are attentive, open and honest.
Verbal language
The green verbal language is influenced of I-messages. You use many questions, both extension (open) questions and more thoroughly questions: “How do you inspire co-operation in the team?”, ”What makes the co-operation good?”, ”Tell me a little more about it”, ”What would you like to talk about?”. The green communicator also repeats what the interlocutor says in order to help him think deeper and to be active in the communication. You don’t speak much yourself.
Para-language
Calm and clear tone of voice
Body language
In accordance with the situation - You are natural and calm.
Methods
Your words, body and your tone of voice are concordant and you are listening actively. You try to imagine your interlocutor’s perspective and you are interested and curious to know more about what the person thinks and why the person thinks that way. You let your interlocutor have his own opinion and you don’t try to convince him that your opinion should be his. You don’t come with good advices and solutions; you let the interlocutor reach his own.
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